"When we train our children how to pray
we must begin teaching them why and how we pray.
But teaching them how is more than just giving
the facts; this will be empty and infective
unless we ourselves are devoted to prayer. If
we come to the place of maturity in prayer where
it is a living and a true love of our life,
our teaching on it will come from our 'innermost
being', our hearts
If we ourselves have
a passion for prayer, when we pray our children
will become infected with the same passion."
Rick Joyner
Do
you realize that God is raising up young prayer
warriors? Children are learning to pray and in
a most powerful manner. There is a growing emphasis
in ministries and churches to train children to
pray. The incredible thing about children is that
they have a simple, childlike faith. This type
of faith is what is so desperately needed in the
prayer movement. Children just believe. They pray
from trusting hearts. They believe that God hears
their prayers. God reveals truth to them. We need
to tap into the powerful prayers of children.
We can humbly learn from their childlike faith
and trust.
"And
he (Jesus) said, 'I tell you the truth, unless
you change and become like little children, you
will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore,
whoever humbles himself like this child is the
greatest in the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew
18:3-4).
The Bible
speaks of several children who had a heart for
God and for prayer. Jesus, Himself, wanted to
be in His Father's house when he was twelve years
old. Josiah was a king at the age of eight who
turned to the Lord with all his heart, soul and
strength (II Kings 23:25). Samuel heard God's
voice as a young boy. "And the boy Samuel
continued to grow in stature and favor with the
Lord and with men" (I Samuel 2:26).
"At
that time Jesus said, 'I praise you, Father, Lord
of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these
things from the wise and learned, and revealed
them to little children" (Matthew 11:25).
Children need
to be cultivated in prayer. If we want to be in
tune with God's plan for this time, then we must
take the effort to train children in the ministry
of prayer. This training in prayer must come from
the passion of our own hearts. We must be dedicated
to prayer. We must model our love relationship
with God to children. It will never work to teach
them about prayer and not practice it ourself.
I have been personally blessed during worship
services when I have watched little girls following
adult dancers in worship and praise. Their dancing
is glorifying to the Lord, and they dance with
incredible ease as they watch and learn from the
adults. "From the lips of children and
infants you have ordained praise" (Matthew
21:16). I have also been blessed when well-behaved,
small children were allowed to stay in the main
service during evening meetings that sometimes
lasted late. They brought their little sleeping
bags and pillows, books and crayons, and went
to sleep right beside their parents when it got
late. I am sure they learned so much as they watched
and participated in the worship and prayer.
"Training
is more than just teaching. You can teach a man
how to fly an airplane from books, but until he
has actually taken the controls and experienced
real flight, he will never be a pilot. Training
is combining teaching with experience. In preparing
our children for life, they need more than just
teaching - they need training."
Rick Joynor
Cultivating
Prayer in Children
"When adults attempt to teach
children to pray, they should encourage the children
to keep doing what they do naturally: retain a
simple, conversational approach to prayer."Alvin
Vander Griend
- Encourage
children to pray - Teach them to pray short
one-sentence prayers, especially the very young
ones. Help them to understand that they are
developing a deep love relationship with God.
- Pray
together as a family - There are several
good books for family devotions. Make sure that
the children pray during these times. Encourage
families to become lighthouses of prayer in
their neighborhood, and make sure that the children
are included.
- Teach
prayer through modeling
- Children learn by watching and observing.
They grow in prayer by watching adults to see
if they prioritize prayer. They copy everything.
They learn from our attitudes and actions. They
catch enthusiasm for prayer from our lives.
- Teach
children to pray together - Help provide
an accepting atmosphere in group prayer. Affirm
their prayers. Let them see you pray for them.
-
Help children to learn to listen to God
- Help them to grow in silent prayer. Teach
them to listen to the still, small voice of
God.
- Prayerwalk
the neighborhood with your children - They
know the area and can often know how to pray
for their friends and the families of their
friends. Go on short prayerwalks with children.
Realize that God may open up divine contacts
through them.
- Give
children special prayer assignments
- Teach them to pray for their school, the sick
and unsaved friends. Let the children give testimonies
of answered prayer.
- Invite
children to pray in church - They can pray
in the Sunday school classes and other prayer
meetings. Let them participate, because children
learn by involvement. It is good for church
prayer meetings to become intergenerational.
All ages should be included in praying in church.
- Plan
prayer events and include the children -
Children learn by doing. Let them experience
prayer. They like to use their senses to see,
touch, taste, feel and hear.
- Teach
children to pray for the nations - Be creative
and use maps, pictures, etc. to help them see
what they are praying for. Teach them to pray
for missionaries and adopt countries as prayer
assignments.
- Pair
the children with adults and young people
- They will learn so much about prayer in this
way. Realize that adults learn so much from
children in prayer as well. Let children be
part of the prayer ministry in the church.
- Teach
children to read and pray God's Word out loud
- They learn the Bible and begin to pray what
is on God's heart. They learn to pray biblical
prayers.
-
Allow some fun during prayer - In her
book When Children Pray, Cheri Fuller says,
"Remember that prayer times don't have
to be all work and no play. Kids transition
easily from the seriousness of prayer into the
fun of play and laughter. So if you lead children
on a prayerwalk, also stop by a playground to
hop on the swings, or visit an ice cream shop."
- Teach
children good prayer habits - Show them
variety in prayer such as folding your hands,
kneeling, and lifting your hands in worship.
Teach them to give all their attention to someone
who is praying, teach them to close their eyes,
etc.
- Encourage
children to talk about everything to God
- Show them that prayer is not just asking for
things, but also praising and giving thanks.
Teach them to confess their sins to God.
I
have included good prayer resources for children
below . I also highly recommend the Pray! Magazine
which includes PrayKids! See www.praykids.com
for information. I also highly recommend the International
House of Prayer conferences that also provide
full teaching tracks for children. For more details,
e-mail equipchildren@ihop.org
or see www.IHOP.org.
Morningstar also has training for children at
their conferences. See www.morningstarministries.org
for details. In order to move forward with what
God has for us in the prayer movement, we must
begin to put a high priority in training children
in prayer and intercession.
"Train
up a child in the way he should go, even when
he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs
22:6).
Prayer
Resources for Children
- A
Children's missions education specialist - Jill
Harris, (602) 345-6276
- Global,
squeeze ball, and prayer spiner (prayer tools
for praying for the children of the world) -
Esther Ilnisky, Esther Network International.
Call (561) 832-6490.
- Kids
Pray (pamphlet) - Julie Brown and Linda
Rozema
- Ministry
to Today's Child - Pat Verbal
- Prayerwalking
for Kids (7 minute video) - Joey and Fawn
Parish
- Prompts
for Prayerwalkers: Seven Ways to Pray from God's
Word for Your World (booklet) - Steve Hawthorne
- Tell
Me About Prayer - Kathryn Kizer
- You
Can Change the World
- Jill Johnstone and Daphne Spraggett
- The
Parent Warrior - Karen Linamen
- The
Power of a Praying Parent - Stormie Omartian
- The
10/40 Window for Children
(6 minute video) - Joey and Fawn Parish
- The
10/40 Window Prayer Tool - Esther Ilnisky
- What
About the Children? - Esther Ilnisky
- With
My Whole Heart: Knowing God Through Prayer
- Sharlange Sledge
"We
will teach the best that which we love the most.
We will teach nothing well that we do not love
ourselves. Living waters can only come from 'the
innermost being'. The purpose of training our
children is to ignite in them that which they
were created to be - lovers and worshippers of
God
Those who have a passion for Jesus,
who are continuing learning about Him, drawing
closer to Him, are the most contagious people
in the world - they will infect everyone they
touch with a passion for God, including their
children."
Rick Joyner
Prayer
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